(I think they call this "failure to launch.") I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date.
And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.
Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction.
Don't make it cruel, but make it clear that you're not intimidated by her beauty. If you're reading her body language well enough, you'll be able to take this as far as you want.
Since no one is perfect and we could all use a bit of polishing, let's put it out there and admit that it's a good thing to look at the behavior that might be holding us back from finding the happy, healthy relationship we all want and deserve.
Instead of complimenting a woman when you first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... I don't want to catch anything from you." By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip her Trust switch in her head.You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis.