I'm sure I'll find somewhere else to answer that specific question on Quora).2. Notice that your username shows up in the preview as well ...so come up with something witty that says something about yourself.I would write overly long and, in my head, witty emails that very rarely received responses. My rule here is very simple: keep your first email very short.Once, I wrote no less than two pages based on a girl’s heading to her profile. I thought I was making conversation but all I was making was a girl scared. Give anything longer than three sentences a good, hard look before sending.
;-)But, if you're looking at someone who's older or just more intelligent and refined, you can do something a bit different. and seemed strangely familiar in that sixth-sense, gut-sense kinda way.
How important is it to write a good online dating first email?
The answer to that may seem obvious, but just in case it isn’t let me say: writing a great first message in online dating is critical to success or failure in your dating life.
For this discussion refers to your first message in online dating.
This will include whatever method the service you are using allows you to write a message to another member.
This advice may still be helpful for sites such as e Harmony or Chemistry.com, however these services guide the communication and there is less “emailing” early on.